A new paradigm of relating
The future belongs to communities that heal and thrive together. That is what I build.
The Challenge
For thousands of years, we lived in community. Relationship is not a lifestyle. It is what makes us human.
Screens connected us. And pulled us apart.
Comfort has a cost. Loneliness is now a public health crisis.
Something has to change in how we relate.
If you or someone you love is struggling, you are not alone. In the U.S., call or text 988 anytime.
The Vision
Places where people heal and thrive together — built on purpose.
How to host. How to belong. How to repair. Every community that lasts is built on these.
Where I Come In
Community builder, curandero, and integration coach in Los Angeles. I work with companies, and I work with men.
For Founders, Companies & Organizations
I design the part that makes people stay: how they relate.
For Individuals · Men's Work
Relationship coaching for men ready to relate deeper — with themselves, their partners, and their communities. The new masculine paradigm is built on relationship.
Communities and organizations I've worked with
Communities I'm Building
These are the communities I'm helping grow right now. You're invited to any of them.
Wellness Community
Head of Community. I build the membership experience, referral programs, events, and the feedback loops that keep a spa feeling like a home.
Visit QuantumJewel Juice
Community Development
Building community around an LA juice brand: activations, membership, and listening closely to how people experience it.
Visit Jewel Juice
Podcast · Events · Media
My podcast and live events company. Honest conversations, ceremony, and gatherings for people ready to heal for real.
Explore HEAL4REAL
Men's Mentorship
A 90-day live mentorship and a lifelong brotherhood for men learning to be steady, present, and powerful. Begins January 2027.
Learn About UNSHAKABLE
Ancestral Lineage
Los Angeles community of Mexica medicine, under Maestra Cuhuatli Cihuatl. I serve as a steward and community builder.
Learn About the LineageNext Gathering
Two days, November 10 to 11. Contrast therapy, earth-room healing, ceremony in Pasadena, and brothers to walk with.
Reserve Your Spot
Why This Matters
I grew up the son of two parents who migrated from Mexico, in a lineage where the men were often absent. I chased attention and love, and I hurt people.
Then I found music, partnership, plant medicine, and the old ways of my ancestors — and I began to heal.
For years I hosted events without building community. I learned the difference. Community is relationship — built through listening, honesty, ritual, and repair.
My mission: safe spaces where healing can happen, and a new paradigm of masculinity.
Read My Full StoryFor Men
With yourself. With your partner. With your family and your community.
01
An immersive weekend of contrast therapy, earth-room healing, and live connection. No cohort required. Come as you are.
Reserve Your Spot
02
Relationship coaching for men ready to relate deeper — with themselves, their partners, their families, and their communities. Begins January 2027.
Apply for January03
Private mentorship for men ready to go deep on nervous system healing, integrative masculinity, and ancestral practice.
Learn MoreLive Cohort · 90 Days · 10 Spots · Begins January 2027
90-Day Live Mentorship
Twelve weeks of live coaching with Tristan, a personalized Life OS built with you, and a closed brotherhood of ten men walking the path together. Begins January 2027.
$2,500
Or 4 × $625/month
Transformation
Weekly conversations on healing, ancestral medicine, nervous system regulation, and the interior life of the modern man.
Watch the PodcastWhether you're building a company, leading an organization, or ready to do your own work, there is a door for you.