Speaker & Men's Guide
Speaking & Facilitations
Tristan V. Esquivez (Xiuhtonal) is the founder of HEAL4REAL — a men's healing brand built on the belief that real transformation happens not in peak experiences, but in the grounded, relational work that follows. Through indigenous wisdom, somatic practice, and community, he helps men (and the people who love them) show up with presence, integrity, and courage.
Integration Coach · Relationship Coach · Healer · Medicine Carrier
What I Bring
Two Signature Offerings
The Art of Showing the F* Up
45 – 60 Minutes · All Identities Welcome
A live, TED-style talk that cuts through spiritual bypassing and gets honest about what real healing looks like. Part teaching, part story, part shared experience — audiences leave inspired, connected, and ready to do the actual work.
Men's Healing & Cacao Experience
3 Hours · Masc-Identifying Folks
A deep immersion experience for men ready to go beyond the surface. Opening and closing ceremony, sacred cacao, dyad work, somatic practice, nervous system reset, and embodied reflection. A safe space to feel, heal, and connect.
Proof of Work
Live in the Room
Moments from Men's Wellness Nights, ceremonies, and community gatherings I've led.
Trusted by communities, organizations & wellness leaders
The Talk — In Three Sentences
Psychedelics, ceremonies, and peak experiences can awaken us — but awareness alone doesn't change anything. Real healing happens in the messy, vulnerable work of showing up authentically in your relationships, your community, and your everyday life. This talk explores what grounded spirituality actually looks like, why partnership is the greatest teacher, and how to cut through the spiritual bypass so you can feel truly alive.
Audience Walks Away With
- Clarity on what grounded spirituality is (and isn't)
- A tangible practice for presence and integrity
- Inspiration to commit deeper to their healing
- Real connection with the people next to them
What This Does For Your Community
- Brings a high-value wellness experience to your space
- Creates meaningful connection among members
- Positions your venue as a hub for real healing
- Draws a mixed, engaged, values-aligned audience
Partnership Options
Ways We Can Work Together
Flat Fee
Your organization sponsors the event. Offered free or low-cost to your community as a value-add.
Ticket Split
Open to the public. Tickets sold and split 50/50. Both parties co-promote for maximum reach.
"Let's create a space for real healing in your community."
Booking inquiries, partnership questions, or curious about something custom? Reach out.